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Psychic Medium Answers-Life After Death

Psychic Medium Answers-Life After Death

I get a ton of questions about life after death. I have selected a few of the most popular for this week's blog. I hope you learn a little something or find the answers interesting. Please continue emailing your questions & I'll keep answering them.

1- Can you communicate with Pets/Animals that have departed the physical world?

Absolutely....Souls of any being who lived on earth continue their life in Spirit after they leave the physical world.

2- Can you communicate with someone who never spoke English in life?

Yes, I can usually tell they didn't speak English because they "talk" much faster to me, but I hear them in English.

3- Why would someone come through for me in a session that I didn't really like or didn't know as opposed to someone I was very close to & miss dearly?

I honestly can't answer this question in the way I would like because I don't really understand it myself. I know that when someone passes, they leave all their negativity towards other behind. Often times, they come through during a session because they have a need to give a message or make peace with someone in the physical world. Also, if it's someone you barely knew, it could be that they are so excited/eager to reach out to the physical world, they have the strongest energy at the time. It is also my understanding that spirits do other things, so they may be busy at the time of the session. In the end, it doesn't mean your loved ones are not with you in spirit or do not want to communicate. It's important to remember, this isn't a Science, but I believe it really depends on the ability of the spirit and I to connect at any given time.

4- Why do they give you clues, signs, feelings, symbols, and impressions at first, then get more direct and speak in regular communication as the session moves forward?

This doesn't always happen. Sometimes, they give me their name and start direct clear and accurate communication almost immediately. Other times, it gets much clearer as the session develops. It is my belief that when I first connect, the connection may not always be strong enough at first, then we kind of "get into the groove" as the session develops. Also, spirits often wait to give their message until after they know that the person I'm sitting with and I are confident, without a doubt in our mind, of who they are. Their message would mean much less if we weren't completely positive it's our loved one.

5- Are all sessions equally accurate and clear?

No....again, I do not understand why myself, but some sessions are crystal clear giving me specific details the entire time...other ones, I have to continually ask questions and really push for the details. I believe it has something to do with the connection at the time and the energy of the person I'm sitting with.

6- Why does my loved one talk about insignificant or odd things sometimes instead of giving you information like my nickname or a special memory that I would immediately connect with?

Spirits say and talk about what they want to. I have no control over it at all. I wish they would say exactly what they need to say to convince the person I'm sitting with quickly, and sometimes it works just that way, but not always and I have no idea why. I do believe that often times the things they discuss & the validation info they give are things they feel are not too general but also not something I could possibly know.

7- Why do they give you initials and not names?

I often times do get exact names; however, when I do get initials, it's important to explain that sometimes they give me the letter itself, but most often, they are saying a name, but I can only understand pieces of it, like the first letter or the ending.

8- Do all spirits talk about different things?

Yes and No. They all talk about different things, but there are certain universal signs and symbols for me that I see frequently. Also, their messages are sometimes similar. No two sessions are ever identical- most all talk about completely different things. It's important for me to explain here that I'm just the messenger, so while I try to help the person I'm sitting with by explaining what that symbol typically means for me, it doesn't always mean the same thing. While I'm very eager to help by giving suggestions for a lot of what they show me & say, it's really important that the person doing the session knows what the Spirit is saying and understands.

9- Why do they connect & what do they want to say?

In my opinion, spirits who come through have a message to deliver to someone in the physical world....they do that through me. These messages are typically one of love, hope, peace, understanding, and unsettled or unresolved situations. It's not about me proving myself , it's truly about people knowing that their loved ones are still with them in Spirit & hopefully offering peace to not only those in the physical world, but often to the spirits as well.

10- You are a psychic too, does that mean you can look at people and know everything about them?

Not at all. The biggest misconception about Psychics and Mediums is that we should know everything about everyone. It just doesn't work this way. Remember, we are not the ones "pulling the strings" & we only know what we are "shown" and are supposed to know.

Theresa Caputo, Long Island Medium, Appointment, Contact, Wait, Fees

I am writing this blog because I get asked questions about Theresa Caputo every day while doing sessions with my current clients.  Here are the questions I get most often & my answers.  1-Do you know what Theresa charges?  I have not been able to find her fees on a website that is directly affiliated with her or her show; however, in my research I have talked to a few people that have had sessions with her.  According to them, it seems the price for a 30 minute session is around $400 in her local area-more if she travels and more for private groups.  I cannot say for certain this is accurate, as I only know what I'm being told by others.  2-How do I get an appointment with her?  To the best of my knowledge, the only way to get an appointment at this time is to email her directly.  I did see numerous requests on the facebook page & follow up comments that she had not been responding- in all fairness to her, I must interject, it's virtually impossible to respond to every request or comment/question I receive, she's on TV...I think it's obvious she couldn't possibly schedule a session with everyone who contacts her.  She has mentioned in several interviews that it's now a 2year+ wait for a session.  3- Are you as good as Theresa?  I do feel my sessions are similar in manner, accuracy, and style to Theresa's, I cannot honestly say I am or am not as good or better than her.  I think we are equally blessed with this gift.  4-Do you think she takes advantage of people by charging so much or by not doing this for free?  Not at all...this is her profession, she has a gift & like me, I'm sure she only wants to help people, this is NOT as easy as people might think.  She deserves to be paid just like anyone else in any profession.  Please read my previous blog regarding psychics medium & fees for more info.  5-Do you feel you are in competition with Theresa?  Absolutely not!  I honestly feel we are very similar, but not competitors...there is plenty of need for our services.  I often do sessions with clients while they wait on the 2+year waiting list or because they didn't get a response as of yet when they contacted her.  I realize she has much more exposure & a hit T.V. show and I'm just as big of a fan as the rest!    Please keep in mind, I'm in no way connected to Theresa on a business or personal level.  I have much admiration for her and feel that she has done an amazing thing for people like me who have this ability.  Every week she shows the world what it is like to do what I do.  As my family & I sit and watch her show, which we record/DVR, we are constantly pausing to reflect on how much this family is like ours.  It may sound strange to hear this from someone like me (I do see dead people after all) but it completely shocks me every time I watch it!  I can't believe how similar we are.  It makes me think there must be a class on the other side that we took before we were born or something.  I mean, here's this lady that I have never met who talks like me (a little bolder than me), says word for word what I say, not only during her sessions, but to her kids & husband, has similar interest, facial expressions, etc....  I can't even really explain how similar our lives are in one blog, but it validated for me that this was DEFINITELY something that was planned out before we ever came to this world.  As I continue to watch her during her sessions & in her everyday life, I realize, just how much of my life was planned before I was ever born, as that is the only explanation I can come up with as to how 2 strangers can have so much in common.  I will continue to support her and watch her show & I encourage everyone else to do the same!

Psychic Vision & Thought-Trayvon Martin

The murder of 17-year-old Trayvon Martin, a Florida high school student who was shot and killed by George Zimmerman, a self-appointed neighborhood watch captain, has left our country confused, hurt, angry, & divided.  So what do I, as a psychic medium, think about this case?  I felt compelled to write this blog because I am OUTRAGED!  I know better than most people, that we are born with a plan.  A plan of our life, that includes a plan of when we are to die.  I do NOT feel it was Trayvon's time to die. 
A neighborhood watch is supposed to be a plan of protection, not one of racism or ignorance.  I feel that in this particular incident, this was NOT a case of self defense, rather a case of a person on a power trip who in an instance took the life of another human being.  I do not feel the police handled this case correctly from the beginning.  Mr. Zimmerman claimed self defense so they just took his word for it and did nothing?  This is not the way our plan was written.  This was a man who jumped to conclusions and acted out of fear and prejudice.  Did he assume that because Trayvon was African American that he must be "up to no good"?  Absolutely he did, but we all have heard what happens when we assume!  I have expressed in this blog what I feel actually happened.  Unfortunately, just me psychically knowing what happened can not bring this young man back to his family & friends.  It's a sad situation.  Everything in this world is planned by a power much higher than us, we are simply pawns & just like the pawns in a board game, the color of the pawn isn't supposed to have any impact on the outcome of the game, unfortunately, the plan is often skewed by  ignorance. The purpose is one of peace and acceptance.  Racism has never & will never be part of the agenda.  That is something humans created & is just one of many things that  that goes against the principles of life.  Those who act out of hatred are going against the plan. The only relief I can offer is that a power much higher than us will see that justice is served, even if it isn't in this world, it will be in the next!

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Psychic Medium Secrets: Who, Why, How, & What questions answered

As a psychic medium, I get many questions from clients, friends, family, & even strangers.  Most of them revolve around how this works, what I see, how I see it, and if I tell EVERYTHING.  Let me start be explaining how I see.  I know there are countless tv shows that depict a psychic medium actually seeing spirits.  I do NOT see it like that.  I'm not saying other psychic mediums are lying, that just isn't the way I see it.  I "see" with my mind.  In my mind I picture people, places, & things.  In my mind I communicate with spirits, ghosts, and angels.  I even hear and feel in my mind.  It's like watching a movie in your head.  When I describe what a spirit looks like, it's simply them showing me.  They are actually no longer a physical body, but instead a collection of energy. Here is how I often describe it: if you wear glasses, take them off and try to see someone down the street-it's very blurry, but you may be able to figure out the general appearance... this is often how I see them in my mind.  I hear their words in my head as well.  Sometimes it's like they are in a tunnel far away and very muffled, other times it is clear.  They do not speak in sentences, but it's more of a game.  I get clues- I tell my client the clues, they have to figure out what it means.  For example, I had a spirit tell me to say "cookie" by showing me an image of a cookie in my mind, I said to my client "Cookie" he's showing me a cookie, did he love cookies or something?"  She instantly got excited and replied "No, his girlfriend's name is Cookie".  This is one way they get me to say certain things, another way is by showing me my family members, for example if they had diabetes, they will often show me my mom, who has diabetes.  Each psychic medium has certain signs and symbols, I have just learned with time & experience what some of my symbols mean.  They might show me the motion of a break with their hands, sort of like if you break a wishbone, this is my symbol for divorce or someone in the family not speaking.  I learn more symbols every day.   I also know if the thought/sound/sensation is coming from my right side, it's a loved one, if it's on my left, it's an angel or spirit guide.  I honestly have no idea why it works that way for me, it just does.  I also will occasionally have a client who is unsatisfied about who shows up to communicate.  They couldn't wait to speak with their mom, but she never shows, instead a great grandmother is here the entire time.  I try to ask for the mom to come, but more often than not, I don't get her that time.  It's not that her mom doesn't want to communicate, it's just that she's not there at the time.  This is very hard for most people to understand.  I don't understand it either.....I just know that I have no control over who shows up and who doesn't.  I have many regular clients who meet with me on a regular basis, some of them get a different person each time, some get the same person each time. I have yet to figure out why it works this way, it just does!  I also get many questions about spirits & ghosts going home with people either after a group or private session.  The answer is YES, the spirits who came with you will leave with you, if they didn't come with you, they will not leave with you.  Finally, I'd like to review a question that everyone is thinking, but few people actually ask out loud...Do I see the negative things and will I tell if I do.  I do see some negative things, but not many.  I may see that someone will have an illness or disease, be in an accident, have a fight with someone, lose their job, etc... None of these things are something I "want" to tell, but yes, I do tell everything I see unless someone instructs me otherwise.  I feel that this spirit is using it's energy to tell me things for a reason and it's not my job to judge if someone can handle it, but simply to pass the message on...that's what I do.  In closing, I would like to touch on one final subject that always seems to come up in questions.  Do I see them everywhere, all of the time?  Yes & No...I can say things to keep them away for the most part; however, if they want me to see them or to pass a message along, they will continue pestering me until I do what they want.  I can usually get them to leave me alone so that I'm not seeing hundreds of spirits when simply going to the mall or attending one of my kid's school functions, but often, I'll get that "look" in my eyes and one of the kids will say..."Mom, please don't do a reading now"!  I usually try to ignore it and it eventually goes away, but sometimes, I just can't help myself and approach a total stranger to tell them that their loved one is there and wants to say hello!

Psychic Medium Sessions- A Spirit Healing-Suicide, Murder, or Accidental Death

I recently had a private session with a new client.  We'll call her "Jane" for confidentiality purposes.  She was quieter than most of my clients and came in to my office visibly shaking- she was both afraid and anxious.  I opened the session as I always do, explaining the process and how spirits come through- the difference between a psychic medium & just a psychic, etc... First her grandmother came through-giving me names of people in the family and detailed info that she was shocked I knew...then a young man came through- I explained what he looked like & that he had passed much younger than her grandmother- I then gave his initials and finally his name- she was shocked and amazed, it was her brother.  As he started speaking, he began apologizing...he wanted her to know that he was so sorry.  He explained how he didn't live where she now does and that he had lived in a larger city, he said that he had gotten in with the wrong crowd and made some poor decisions. He then went on to say that the two of them had a lot of arguments and really didn't get along, he had been in legal trouble and had abused drugs and alcohol.  He also wanted her to know that when he passed of a drug overdose, it was NOT a suicide, he began to cry (the first time I had ever seen this from a spirit), he explained that he accidentally took too many prescription pills and while he had many issues and was depressed, he did NOT kill himself.  He also told her it was not a murder, but a complete accident.  He repeated several times how sorry he was for what he put their family through- both while he was living and after he passed. He then told her to please tell his parents that they did the right thing in dealing with his issues by exercising tough love and alienating him.  He mentioned the screaming in the home, the negative energy he created, and how much he wished he could change that.  As he was fading and leaving the session, he turned and said to me "Thank you so much, I really needed to get that out, I am fine here, but couldn't truly feel at peace until I got those things off my chest and told the people I loved how sorry I was and what really happened".  After the session, as "Jane" was leaving, she told me as tears welled in her eyes, how much agony the family had been through, over what caused her brother's death and the lingering questions:  Did he commit suicide, was he murdered?  They also worried that the tough love technique they chose to pursue with him, was the wrong one.  Now she knows the truth.   Of course, I have abbreviated this story for blog purposes.  The reason I wanted to share this session is because I felt it was an important lesson for me.  While there is no ill will or negativity and they are very happy and healthy, the process of communication with loved ones here on earth is a healing process, not only for us, but for the spirits as well.  I'm not sure why I have this ability to communicate with the spirit world, but I do feel now, more than ever, it is my responsibility to help not only my clients with the grieving process, but sometimes the spirits as well.  I hope that I can bring peace & comfort to not only those in this physical world, but to those that I am so blessed to be able to communicate with on the other side.

Psychic Answers-Suicide, Murder, Heaven or Hell? Good VS Evil?

I received a comment on a previous blog I had written (the most recent blog, last comment),from a lady who seems very lost and confused right now.  She is not alone, I get many similar calls and emails from others asking some of the very same questions and searching for answers.   I often receive questions regarding Suicide, Murder, Heaven & Hell.  These questions usually have to do with if Heaven and Hell really exist & what my beliefs are in relation to what happens to people who have sinned or committed suicide when they die. Do good people go to Heaven and bad people go to Hell? Are we forgiven for our sins, etc...

It is my understanding that there is not an actual Heaven or Hell on the other side.  At least, not the way many of us picture it or have been taught about it.  There are instead various levels or plains.  I guess one could say that the higher levels represent Heaven and the lower levels represent Hell- but that's not the way it is actually labeled.  The entire system is based on only one thing- Karma!  That's right... it's not as exciting or complex as you might think.  We all get back what we put out in life- good or bad, in this life or the next- We are rewarded for the good and held accountable for the bad. 

We all have a plan before we are ever born.  This is like a blueprint of what our life is supposed to be like, the challenges we should face, the people we will lose, and even when we are supposed to die- down to the day and minute- it's all planned before we are ever born. These lessons help us to achieve the ultimate goal: to live a selfless life full of  love and compassion for others. 

The other side, regardless of the level a spirit is on, is a beautiful magical place.  It's very similar to what we are taught to expect Heaven to look and feel like.  When we die, we go to a certain level in "Heaven".  Our levels are determined by our life and how we live it (please keep in mind that there are many other details and circumstances being omitted here,  I'm just trying to explain this without writing an entire book on a blog). 

When you get over there and go to your assigned level, based on your life here in the physical world, you begin going through training and counseling of sorts to learn what you didn't learn while here and to prepare you for your next life.  Most spirits are over there for hundreds of years on their current level before returning to this world.

Now let's discuss suicide.  When you commit suicide, you end your life earlier than you had previously agreed.   This means that all future lessons will be missed and past ones were not mastered. This goes against your "blue print".  As a result,  there are consequences. You will have to go through some very short counseling on the lower levels of the other side, then you must be re-born very quickly.  You will be born as someone else, but must face all of the same struggles and challenges in your new life that you tried to escape from your last time around.

So you see, when I say, suicide is NEVER the answer...it truly isn't, you will just be re-born and have to deal with the same problems and issues all over again until you get it right.  There is a little more that occurs during the "in between" period- that is, after you commit suicide but before you come back, but I'm not going to get into that in this blog. 

The same holds true for murderers, rapists, etc...  They are also held accountable for what they have done in life.  They immediately go to a lower level.  They have to go through intense training and counseling, a reformation of sorts.

The biggest thing I have learned is that what I thought I knew about redemption of sins, is simply not true.  When you die, all your sins are not simply forgiven because you asked for them to be, also, while you are held accountable for what you do in this life, there is no Satan and there is no Hell (at least not the way most of us have been taught).

It may seem like being born and having to do the same life over again as a different person isn't much punishment- but please remember, our souls do not want to be born- we don't want to come to this life any sooner than we have to- so in a way, it is like a punishment.

To sum it up, I haven't even started to explain all of the dynamics involved with death and suicide, Heaven and Hell, or Good & Evil.  If you take only one thing away from this blog post, I hope you'll understand that suicide is NEVER the answer and Karma is very real!

Psychic Session-Who IsThis Guy-Relentless Spirit, Mysterious Death, & Lessons Learned

I wanted to share another memorable session.  I was doing a group session.  There were about 10 people present.  I went around the room as I usually do, different family members and friends were coming through for different guests. It was a "typical" group session (If you can ever call these experiences typical). 
    Suddenly, I had the spirit of a man saying he passed young, he appeared to be in his late teens or early 20s.  He gave me the feeling that he was very close to someone in the group.  I said  " I have a man who passed early in life, he says he was very close to someone here...maybe a husband/boyfriend or even a brother or best friend".  No one from the group responded.  I continued.."He's a good looking guy, someone really close- a cousin or brother maybe? he says he spent holidays with you, did things together as children, he says you have a sister...someone must know this guy?" Still, the group remains quiet...I then ask again.. "Does anyone know who this is?".  
    I must explain here that often times the spirit is relentless and will not simply leave.  They will continue as long as it takes for me to connect them with the right person. 
    The guests begin saying, no, not me, I have no idea who this is ( I can tell by the looks on their faces they are starting to doubt my abilities)....At this point, I am beginning to get frustrated and so is he...he then gives me a name, loud & clear...., I say to the group "OK, Who is Jennifer"? I say this rather abruptly, the same way he said it to me.  Finally, a girl in the corner of the room says..."That's me...I'm Jennifer".  I proceed to ask her if she had anyone she was very close to who passed at a young age, she says, yes my cousin.  I tease her a little & say "Finally, duh...why didn't you speak up?", she replied that she was thinking it was a husband or boyfriend because that's the first thing I had said about him. 
    He then goes on to give her information to validate his identity, personal stories about how they got in trouble together as kids and other situations that meant something & validated his identity for her.  He then tells me his death was mysterious.  He continues to explain that his parents always suspected foul play and they were right.  He tells me to tell her, "Go see them, she hasn't seen them in a while"...she confirms that this is true-his parents did suspect foul play & she hadn't seen them in a while.  He instructs her (through me) to tell his parents that they were right, that there were at least 2 others involved in his death and that somehow drugs were related.  He said his parents needed to hear that.  She confirmed that they were having a very difficult time getting past his death because they just didn't know what happened.  I then told her every detail he gave me about his death. 
    While I have many memorable readings, this is one of those that sticks with me.  This reading taught me two very important lessons about the other side....1-If a spirit has a message that they feel is important to get out, they will...they do not give up and will continue relentlessly until I get the message to the right person. 2- I have to say what they say, I shouldn't guess or try to figure out the clues myself, this can confuse the clients or lead them down the wrong path.  If I had just said what I heard, that this was a male who was very close to someone in the room, Jennifer may have thought of her cousin sooner, but because I interpreted his statement about the close relationship to mean it was possibly a husband and that was the first thing I said, she immediately discounted it and thought this message was meant for someone else. As soon as she heard me say "Possibly a husband", she tuned out, until I said her name, Jennifer.  It can sometimes be difficult to just repeat exactly what I hear.  It sounds like it would be easy enough to just repeat, and that is my job, but as humans, we automatically try to understand or decipher the clues ourselves.  I wasn't trying to lead my clients, but simply trying to help them interpret the meanings of the clues based on my experience.  I now try to say EXACTLY what is said to me, word for word, and  while I may offer suggestions, such as "this usually means...", I no longer try to figure it all out myself.  I know now that it is not my job to figure it all out, I am simply the messenger.

Psychic-Medium Group Session-Solved 25 year old Murder Case

I just wanted to share an interesting reading that happened over the weekend.  While all readings are very interesting & exciting and often bring peace & joy  to the client & myself, some of them , like this one, just stand out to me. I can't remember every detail of how this went because if you have ever met me, you know, I forget most of what comes through during a reading as soon as it is out of my mouth-they are not my thoughts-so they are gone instantly, but here's what I do remember of this reading.
  I went to West Virginia to do a group session.  I only knew the host and 2 attendees of the group.  I did my normal intro to the group of about 15 people.  A very nice older man came through to chat with his wife and granddaughter, then a mother in law,  a friend, etc... as we had the chance to connect various people around the room with their loved ones.  We passed the tissues around (which is how it normally goes at a group) when suddenly I had a very bad pain in my head.  I have never felt a headache that bad.  I also felt a squeezing pressure in my head with the pain.  I explained the feeling & that it came with a man who probably passed young- in his 20s or 30s.  He passed with trauma to his head.  An older lady from the corner of the room said "I think that's for me", her voice quivering as tears welled her in eyes.  I asked if she had a son who passed several years ago with head trauma at this age...she said "yes".  I can't remember the "small talk" but he started with little comments and words to validate his identity...all of which she nodded and agreed made sense to her.  I then said "I feel like his death was an accident, not medical related", to which she replied an astounding "YES"!  She then asked "What can you tell me about his death?"  I told her that he said it was an accident but someone was keeping a secret.  I saw a group of people around him, something happened, they all ran, someone knew & either didn't try to help or didn't tell anyone something important that they knew.  She then explained to me that he had been shot in the head.  The police told her he used his own gun & he accidentally shot himself in the head.  I then told her, "He's saying it didn't happen that way."  She immediately sighed loud enough for the entire room to hear.  She then said, the police told me he was getting the gun out to show his friends when the gun went off and he accidentally shot himself.  She said he had been a hunter and grew up around guns his entire life, so it wasn't strange that he got the gun out to show friends.  I then asked her (I almost didn't ask this because I couldn't believe he was saying what I thought I heard next).....I ask "Was there someone with him at the time named Scott ?"  She began crying & shook her head yes..she could barely speak to answer and I was getting filled with emotion too (something I rarely do at a reading).  I said...Scott did it.  He says he got the gun out to show his friends, Scott was handling it & somehow it went off and shot him-he died almost instantly and felt no pain.  It was an accident, no doubt about it, but Scott never admitted that he did it.  Her voice grew much stronger now and louder, she was no longer sobbing but almost smiling as she said "I KNEW IT!  I CONFRONTED SCOTT & HIS WIFE SEVERAL YEARS AGO....BUT HE STILL DENIED IT, I KNEW IT WAS AN ACCIDENT, BUT I ALSO KNEW MY SON DIDN'T SHOOT HIMSELF".  The entire group gasped at this point, but aside from that gasp, the other attendees said nothing & the room was completely quiet.  I told her that she was absolutely right & that he clearly told me this Scott guy had murdered him, but by complete & total accident.  He didn't want her to pursue this in any way...he just wanted her to have peace again knowing what really happened & that she was right all along.  We continued for a few moments with other family members in the room.  When the group session ended, she came up to me and hugged me so tight it brought tears to my eyes.  She explained that this has haunted her for over 25 years.  She hasn't had true peace in her life since the day she lost her son because she knew he couldn't have done it himself.  He had an injury to the hand the police said he shot himself with earlier in his life, that left it so he couldn't move it a certain way- there was no way he could have shot himself in the manner the police told her.  She cried & said "I will finally be able to sleep at night and enjoy my life, thank you so much...you'll never know what this meant to me, it changed my life".  While I may never truly understand the impact this had on this lady.  I do know that the look of calm & peace in her eyes when she left was so overwhelming it took my breath away.  I know now for certain that this is what I'm supposed to do with my life.  I don't feel I deserve that kind of credit, as I am just the messenger..repeating what I hear.  It was the connection & love between her and her son that allowed me to repeat his words that night, but I LOVED being their interpreter!