My name is Shelly Frey and I am a Psychic Medium. This means that I can speak to those that have passed. Here you can read articles about my sessions, experiences, and opinions on current events! I love my career path, and have committed myself to helping others realize that life after death not only exists; but that spirits, ghosts, and other paranormal phenomenon are a part of our everyday life. Please feel free to comment and contact me directly for fees and services. www.shellyfrey.com
Monday, July 16, 2012
Tuesday, April 17, 2012
Theresa Caputo, Long Island Medium, Appointment, Contact, Wait, Fees
I am writing this blog because I get asked questions about Theresa Caputo
every day while doing sessions with my current clients. Here are the
questions I get most often & my answers. 1-Do you know what Theresa
charges? I have not been able to find her fees on a website that is
directly affiliated with her or her show; however, in my research I have
talked to a few people that have had sessions with her. According to
them, it seems the price for a 30 minute session is around $400 in her
local area-more if she travels and more for private groups. I cannot
say for certain this is accurate, as I only know what I'm being told by
others. 2-How do I get an appointment with her? To the best of my
knowledge, the only way to get an appointment at this time is to email
her directly. I did see numerous requests on the facebook page &
follow up comments that she had not been responding- in all fairness to
her, I must interject, it's virtually impossible to respond to every
request or comment/question I receive, she's on TV...I think it's
obvious she couldn't possibly schedule a session with everyone who
contacts her. She has mentioned in several interviews that it's now a
2year+ wait for a session. 3- Are you as good as Theresa? I do feel my
sessions are similar in manner, accuracy, and style to Theresa's, I
cannot honestly say I am or am not as good or better than her. I think
we are equally blessed with this gift. 4-Do you think she takes
advantage of people by charging so much or by not doing this for free?
Not at all...this is her profession, she has a gift & like me, I'm
sure she only wants to help people, this is NOT as easy as people might
think. She deserves to be paid just like anyone else in any
profession. Please read my previous blog regarding psychics medium
& fees for more info. 5-Do you feel you are in competition with
Theresa? Absolutely not! I honestly feel we are very similar, but not
competitors...there is plenty of need for our services. I often do
sessions with clients while they wait on the 2+year waiting list or
because they didn't get a response as of yet when they contacted her. I
realize she has much more exposure & a hit T.V. show and I'm just
as big of a fan as the rest! Please keep in mind, I'm in no way
connected to Theresa on a business or personal level. I have much
admiration for her and feel that she has done an amazing thing for
people like me who have this ability. Every week she shows the world
what it is like to do what I do. As my family & I sit and watch her
show, which we record/DVR, we are constantly pausing to reflect on how
much this family is like ours. It may sound strange to hear this from
someone like me (I do see dead people after all) but it completely
shocks me every time I watch it! I can't believe how similar we are.
It makes me think there must be a class on the other side that we took
before we were born or something. I mean, here's this lady that I have
never met who talks like me (a little bolder than me), says word for
word what I say, not only during her sessions, but to her kids &
husband, has similar interest, facial expressions, etc.... I can't even
really explain how similar our lives are in one blog, but it validated
for me that this was DEFINITELY something that was planned out before we
ever came to this world. As I continue to watch her during her
sessions & in her everyday life, I realize, just how much of my life
was planned before I was ever born, as that is the only explanation I
can come up with as to how 2 strangers can have so much in common. I
will continue to support her and watch her show & I encourage
everyone else to do the same!
Tuesday, April 3, 2012
Psychic Vision & Thought-Trayvon Martin
The murder of 17-year-old Trayvon Martin, a Florida high school student
who was shot and killed by George Zimmerman, a self-appointed
neighborhood watch captain, has left our country confused, hurt, angry,
& divided. So what do I, as a psychic medium, think about this
case? I felt compelled to write this blog because I am OUTRAGED! I
know better than most people, that we are born with a plan. A plan of
our life, that includes a plan of when we are to die. I do NOT feel it
was Trayvon's time to die.
A neighborhood watch is supposed to be a plan of protection, not one of racism or ignorance. I feel that in this particular incident, this was NOT a case of self defense, rather a case of a person on a power trip who in an instance took the life of another human being. I do not feel the police handled this case correctly from the beginning. Mr. Zimmerman claimed self defense so they just took his word for it and did nothing? This is not the way our plan was written. This was a man who jumped to conclusions and acted out of fear and prejudice. Did he assume that because Trayvon was African American that he must be "up to no good"? Absolutely he did, but we all have heard what happens when we assume! I have expressed in this blog what I feel actually happened. Unfortunately, just me psychically knowing what happened can not bring this young man back to his family & friends. It's a sad situation. Everything in this world is planned by a power much higher than us, we are simply pawns & just like the pawns in a board game, the color of the pawn isn't supposed to have any impact on the outcome of the game, unfortunately, the plan is often skewed by ignorance. The purpose is one of peace and acceptance. Racism has never & will never be part of the agenda. That is something humans created & is just one of many things that that goes against the principles of life. Those who act out of hatred are going against the plan. The only relief I can offer is that a power much higher than us will see that justice is served, even if it isn't in this world, it will be in the next!
A neighborhood watch is supposed to be a plan of protection, not one of racism or ignorance. I feel that in this particular incident, this was NOT a case of self defense, rather a case of a person on a power trip who in an instance took the life of another human being. I do not feel the police handled this case correctly from the beginning. Mr. Zimmerman claimed self defense so they just took his word for it and did nothing? This is not the way our plan was written. This was a man who jumped to conclusions and acted out of fear and prejudice. Did he assume that because Trayvon was African American that he must be "up to no good"? Absolutely he did, but we all have heard what happens when we assume! I have expressed in this blog what I feel actually happened. Unfortunately, just me psychically knowing what happened can not bring this young man back to his family & friends. It's a sad situation. Everything in this world is planned by a power much higher than us, we are simply pawns & just like the pawns in a board game, the color of the pawn isn't supposed to have any impact on the outcome of the game, unfortunately, the plan is often skewed by ignorance. The purpose is one of peace and acceptance. Racism has never & will never be part of the agenda. That is something humans created & is just one of many things that that goes against the principles of life. Those who act out of hatred are going against the plan. The only relief I can offer is that a power much higher than us will see that justice is served, even if it isn't in this world, it will be in the next!
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Sunday, March 25, 2012
Psychics & Psychic Mediums Differences-Time of Session, Fees, Confusion
I have been doing extensive research into other psychics and psychic
mediums. The differences in fees they charge, why these fees are so
different, etc. I feel this is what I am meant to do with my life and
rather than a hobby, it's now my profession, so I need to set my fees
accordingly. What did I find after hours of extensive
research?........ It's confusing!
There are many different types of psychics, the sessions times & fees are all over the place. It seems that the important factor when determining the fee is the type of psychic. There are psychics, psychic mediums, card readers, astrology, numerology, palm reading, etc.. While some of these have actual psychic abilities, others practice learned skills and do not use an intuitive ability for the most part. Another factor in pricing seems to be the amount of time a session lasts.
Let's first discuss the psychic & the psychic medium. Psychics are those who have the intuitive ability to see things about you & your life that can not be explained-often focusing on your current & future, they can also see your past. They have an ability to see with their mind, that which is unexplainable. Psychics typically charge anywhere from $50-$200. According to my research, the average psychic charges $50 for a 10-15 minute session. Psychic sessions are usually less than 20 minutes. While I wouldn't consider psychics to be easy to find or "common", they are a little more common than psychic mediums, which are the next type of psychic to discuss. This is the category I fall under. Psychic Mediums can do everything the previously mentioned psychic can do, but with an additional ability to communicate with the Other Side, including ghosts, spirits, family & friends who have passed, angels, & spirit guides, etc. Most psychic mediums(like myself) are often able to give specifics about your loved ones passed-their exact names, name of people in your family, their personality, etc. As a psychic medium, I act as the "middle man" to help connect my clients with their loved ones-I'm just the person delivering the message. I also discuss past, present, & future with my clients (like a psychic). We have a connection with the other side and can see/communicate with several different spiritual levels. Psychic Mediums are typically a bit harder to find than the other psychics types. The average psychic medium in the U.S. does 20-30 minute sessions, charging an average of $250 per session. The final group of psychics are not technically psychics. These are the ones with the learned skills, they consist of everything from astrology to numerology, these types of psychics are professional at what they do. I'm not criticizing them, they have put in a lot of time and effort to learn their skill & I feel that there is some truth to each of these realms of parapsychology; however, this is a skill that most people could learn themselves and not so much a psychic. These type sessions are typically between $25-75, their sessions are typically short in time. Some lasting only 5-10 minutes. Some of these type psychics do have some psychic abilities themselves as well, but many do not. While the session fees are typically lower than a psychic or psychic medium, the session time is also shorter.
In conclusion, I found that psychic fees vary widely, mostly determined by the type of psychic and length of time a session lasts. I'm not a "clock watcher" and allow my client's sessions to unfold and take as long as they need. I do not charge based on minutes. My sessions are usually 30minutes-1 hour, with an average of 45 minutes and are $100 in my office. I also offer telephone sessions, as well as travel for group sessions. All psychics are different, some are mediums and some are not, some use tools and others do not. All see things in a different way. The best thing for anyone considering doing a psychic session is to do research on the psychic as follows: What type of psychic are they? Do you want or need to connect with someone on the other side? Do they have a good reputation & testimonials? Are you concerned with how long the session lasts and if so, do you want a short or longer session? Do your research. In the end, there are many types of good reputable psychics to choose from. You have to choose one you feel comfortable with, both in personality, and in fees, time, and accuracy.
There are many different types of psychics, the sessions times & fees are all over the place. It seems that the important factor when determining the fee is the type of psychic. There are psychics, psychic mediums, card readers, astrology, numerology, palm reading, etc.. While some of these have actual psychic abilities, others practice learned skills and do not use an intuitive ability for the most part. Another factor in pricing seems to be the amount of time a session lasts.
Let's first discuss the psychic & the psychic medium. Psychics are those who have the intuitive ability to see things about you & your life that can not be explained-often focusing on your current & future, they can also see your past. They have an ability to see with their mind, that which is unexplainable. Psychics typically charge anywhere from $50-$200. According to my research, the average psychic charges $50 for a 10-15 minute session. Psychic sessions are usually less than 20 minutes. While I wouldn't consider psychics to be easy to find or "common", they are a little more common than psychic mediums, which are the next type of psychic to discuss. This is the category I fall under. Psychic Mediums can do everything the previously mentioned psychic can do, but with an additional ability to communicate with the Other Side, including ghosts, spirits, family & friends who have passed, angels, & spirit guides, etc. Most psychic mediums(like myself) are often able to give specifics about your loved ones passed-their exact names, name of people in your family, their personality, etc. As a psychic medium, I act as the "middle man" to help connect my clients with their loved ones-I'm just the person delivering the message. I also discuss past, present, & future with my clients (like a psychic). We have a connection with the other side and can see/communicate with several different spiritual levels. Psychic Mediums are typically a bit harder to find than the other psychics types. The average psychic medium in the U.S. does 20-30 minute sessions, charging an average of $250 per session. The final group of psychics are not technically psychics. These are the ones with the learned skills, they consist of everything from astrology to numerology, these types of psychics are professional at what they do. I'm not criticizing them, they have put in a lot of time and effort to learn their skill & I feel that there is some truth to each of these realms of parapsychology; however, this is a skill that most people could learn themselves and not so much a psychic. These type sessions are typically between $25-75, their sessions are typically short in time. Some lasting only 5-10 minutes. Some of these type psychics do have some psychic abilities themselves as well, but many do not. While the session fees are typically lower than a psychic or psychic medium, the session time is also shorter.
In conclusion, I found that psychic fees vary widely, mostly determined by the type of psychic and length of time a session lasts. I'm not a "clock watcher" and allow my client's sessions to unfold and take as long as they need. I do not charge based on minutes. My sessions are usually 30minutes-1 hour, with an average of 45 minutes and are $100 in my office. I also offer telephone sessions, as well as travel for group sessions. All psychics are different, some are mediums and some are not, some use tools and others do not. All see things in a different way. The best thing for anyone considering doing a psychic session is to do research on the psychic as follows: What type of psychic are they? Do you want or need to connect with someone on the other side? Do they have a good reputation & testimonials? Are you concerned with how long the session lasts and if so, do you want a short or longer session? Do your research. In the end, there are many types of good reputable psychics to choose from. You have to choose one you feel comfortable with, both in personality, and in fees, time, and accuracy.
Wednesday, March 21, 2012
Psychic Medium Secrets: Who, Why, How, & What questions answered
As a psychic medium, I get many questions from clients, friends, family,
& even strangers. Most of them revolve around how this works, what
I see, how I see it, and if I tell EVERYTHING. Let me start be
explaining how I see. I know there are countless tv shows that depict a
psychic medium actually seeing spirits. I do NOT see it like that.
I'm not saying other psychic mediums are lying, that just isn't the way I
see it. I "see" with my mind. In my mind I picture people, places,
& things. In my mind I communicate with spirits, ghosts, and
angels. I even hear and feel in my mind. It's like watching a movie in
your head. When I describe what a spirit looks like, it's simply them
showing me. They are actually no longer a physical body, but instead a
collection of energy. Here is how I often describe it: if you wear
glasses, take them off and try to see someone down the street-it's very
blurry, but you may be able to figure out the general appearance... this
is often how I see them in my mind. I hear their words in my head as
well. Sometimes it's like they are in a tunnel far away and very
muffled, other times it is clear. They do not speak in sentences, but
it's more of a game. I get clues- I tell my client the clues, they have
to figure out what it means. For example, I had a spirit tell me to
say "cookie" by showing me an image of a cookie in my mind, I said to my
client "Cookie" he's showing me a cookie, did he love cookies or
something?" She instantly got excited and replied "No, his girlfriend's
name is Cookie". This is one way they get me to say certain things,
another way is by showing me my family members, for example if they had
diabetes, they will often show me my mom, who has diabetes. Each
psychic medium has certain signs and symbols, I have just learned with
time & experience what some of my symbols mean. They might show me
the motion of a break with their hands, sort of like if you break a
wishbone, this is my symbol for divorce or someone in the family not
speaking. I learn more symbols every day. I also know if the
thought/sound/sensation is coming from my right side, it's a loved one,
if it's on my left, it's an angel or spirit guide. I honestly have no
idea why it works that way for me, it just does. I also will
occasionally have a client who is unsatisfied about who shows up to
communicate. They couldn't wait to speak with their mom, but she never
shows, instead a great grandmother is here the entire time. I try to
ask for the mom to come, but more often than not, I don't get her that
time. It's not that her mom doesn't want to communicate, it's just that
she's not there at the time. This is very hard for most people to
understand. I don't understand it either.....I just know that I have no
control over who shows up and who doesn't. I have many regular clients
who meet with me on a regular basis, some of them get a different
person each time, some get the same person each time. I have yet to
figure out why it works this way, it just does! I also get many
questions about spirits & ghosts going home with people either after
a group or private session. The answer is YES, the spirits who came
with you will leave with you, if they didn't come with you, they will
not leave with you. Finally, I'd like to review a question that
everyone is thinking, but few people actually ask out loud...Do I see
the negative things and will I tell if I do. I do see some negative
things, but not many. I may see that someone will have an illness or
disease, be in an accident, have a fight with someone, lose their job,
etc... None of these things are something I "want" to tell, but yes, I
do tell everything I see unless someone instructs me otherwise. I feel
that this spirit is using it's energy to tell me things for a reason and
it's not my job to judge if someone can handle it, but simply to pass
the message on...that's what I do. In closing, I would like to touch on
one final subject that always seems to come up in questions. Do I see
them everywhere, all of the time? Yes & No...I can say things to
keep them away for the most part; however, if they want me to see them
or to pass a message along, they will continue pestering me until I do
what they want. I can usually get them to leave me alone so that I'm
not seeing hundreds of spirits when simply going to the mall or
attending one of my kid's school functions, but often, I'll get that
"look" in my eyes and one of the kids will say..."Mom, please don't do a
reading now"! I usually try to ignore it and it eventually goes away,
but sometimes, I just can't help myself and approach a total stranger to
tell them that their loved one is there and wants to say hello!
Friday, March 16, 2012
Fav Psychic Experience of the week-at the Casino, Relentless Spirit
Last weekend I was in the Delaware area doing a group session, which
went very well. At the end of the day on Saturday, feeling very tired,
John and I went back to the hotel and I crashed. Doing back to back
readings is physically exhausting and emotionally draining. I had hoped
to go to the nearby casino that night, but was much too tired. The
next morning, after checking out of the hotel, we decided to stop at the
casino for a bit before beginning our 3.5 hour drive home. We
typically go straight for the Roulette wheel (no my psychic abilities
will not work for this, I have tried!), but they only had 2 tables open
and they were packed. We walked around looking and found a Spanish21
Table with 2 seats open-perfect! We sat down and began to play.
Immediately upon sitting down and handing the dealer my player card and
money, I heard it. I knew I wasn't alone & thought, "Here we go
again"! I clearly heard the voice in my head saying "Thelma". I tried
to ignore it, it just kept repeating...."Thelma, Thelma....say it out
loud, Thelma!" I knew this wasn't going to go away, spirits can be
relentless. I tried saying (in my mind of course), " I'm not working
right now Thelma, you need to leave!" It didn't work. Now in order to
understand the next part of this story, you have to understand how this
casino game works, basically, It's like regular BlackJack in most ways,
but you have the chance of doing a side bet to try to "match" the
dealer's card. We are now sitting there approximately 30 minutes- I
have heard that name "Thelma" repeated in my head the ENTIRE time. I
turn to John, my husband, and say, I'm not alone, someone named Thelma
is here and she will not leave me alone, he just grinned. I explained
to him that I may have to say something, being his usual supportive
self, he said :if you need to say it, say it!" I then decided to reason
with this spirit, I said (again in my mind), if you let me match the
dealer's card, I'll ask these people if they know who you are when the
dealer breaks to shuffle. The very next hand, I matched, and the one
after that, then an exact match, then again....I had explained to John
what my deal was, he laughed. This went on for several hands, I kept
matching and we kept laughing. By now the dealer and one other player
at the table asked me what we were laughing at, I said, I'll tell you
when we get to the shuffle, but you'll probably all think I'm crazy. We
finally get to the shuffle. The dealer and the 1 guy who were on to me
asked me to tell them what's up. I said, "I am a Psychic Medium (of
course, this always gets me some strange looks), I know that may sound
crazy to you all, but there is a female spirit here named Thelma and she
wants to talk to 1 of you"- they all look at me and then each other
with a confused look on their face. There were 2 guys to my left, I had
thought for sure 1 of them were going to say they knew her. There was
an elderly lady on John's right and the dealer-all shaking their heads.
I was so afraid this would happen-no one knows her, they think I'm
crazy, then the older lady, who I can't see well because John is
partially blocking her, leans over and says "WAIT A MINUTE!", then
starts digging in her purse...with a look on her face like she had just
seen a ghost herself, she pulls out a picture from her wallet, it's a
female, imprinted in the top corner is her name "Thelma", she turns the
card over to show me it's the card she picked up at Thelma's funeral.
Thelma was her best friend's daughter. I explained that Thelma wanted
her to relay some messages to her family- she missed them, loved them
all, was at peace, etc...", the lady looks at John as if she's terrified
and says "I don't think I want them to know I was at the casino
gambling"! TRUE STORY!!!
Friday, March 9, 2012
Psychic Medium Sessions- A Spirit Healing-Suicide, Murder, or Accidental Death
I recently had a private session with a new client. We'll call her
"Jane" for confidentiality purposes. She was quieter than most of my
clients and came in to my office visibly shaking- she was both afraid
and anxious. I opened the session as I always do, explaining the
process and how spirits come through- the difference between a psychic
medium & just a psychic, etc... First her grandmother came
through-giving me names of people in the family and detailed info that
she was shocked I knew...then a young man came through- I explained what
he looked like & that he had passed much younger than her
grandmother- I then gave his initials and finally his name- she was
shocked and amazed, it was her brother. As he started speaking, he
began apologizing...he wanted her to know that he was so sorry. He
explained how he didn't live where she now does and that he had lived in
a larger city, he said that he had gotten in with the wrong crowd and
made some poor decisions. He then went on to say that the two of them
had a lot of arguments and really didn't get along, he had been in legal
trouble and had abused drugs and alcohol. He also wanted her to know
that when he passed of a drug overdose, it was NOT a suicide, he began
to cry (the first time I had ever seen this from a spirit), he explained
that he accidentally took too many prescription pills and while he had
many issues and was depressed, he did NOT kill himself. He also told
her it was not a murder, but a complete accident. He repeated several
times how sorry he was for what he put their family through- both while
he was living and after he passed. He then told her to please tell his
parents that they did the right thing in dealing with his issues by
exercising tough love and alienating him. He mentioned the screaming in
the home, the negative energy he created, and how much he wished he
could change that. As he was fading and leaving the session, he turned
and said to me "Thank you so much, I really needed to get that out, I am
fine here, but couldn't truly feel at peace until I got those things
off my chest and told the people I loved how sorry I was and what really
happened". After the session, as "Jane" was leaving, she told me as
tears welled in her eyes, how much agony the family had been through,
over what caused her brother's death and the lingering questions: Did
he commit suicide, was he murdered? They also worried that the tough
love technique they chose to pursue with him, was the wrong one. Now
she knows the truth. Of course, I have abbreviated this story for blog
purposes. The reason I wanted to share this session is because I felt
it was an important lesson for me. While there is no ill will or
negativity and they are very happy and healthy, the process of
communication with loved ones here on earth is a healing process, not
only for us, but for the spirits as well. I'm not sure why I have this
ability to communicate with the spirit world, but I do feel now, more
than ever, it is my responsibility to help not only my clients with the
grieving process, but sometimes the spirits as well. I hope that I can
bring peace & comfort to not only those in this physical world, but
to those that I am so blessed to be able to communicate with on the
other side.
Saturday, February 18, 2012
Psychic Answers-Suicide, Murder, Heaven or Hell? Good VS Evil?
I received a comment on a previous blog I had written (the most recent
blog, last comment),from a lady who seems very lost and confused right
now. She is not alone, I get many similar calls and emails from others
asking some of the very same questions and searching for answers. I
often receive questions regarding Suicide, Murder, Heaven & Hell.
These questions usually have to do with if Heaven and Hell really exist
& what my beliefs are in relation to what happens to people who have
sinned or committed suicide when they die. Do good people go to Heaven
and bad people go to Hell? Are we forgiven for our sins, etc...
It is my understanding that there is not an actual Heaven or Hell on the other side. At least, not the way many of us picture it or have been taught about it. There are instead various levels or plains. I guess one could say that the higher levels represent Heaven and the lower levels represent Hell- but that's not the way it is actually labeled. The entire system is based on only one thing- Karma! That's right... it's not as exciting or complex as you might think. We all get back what we put out in life- good or bad, in this life or the next- We are rewarded for the good and held accountable for the bad.
We all have a plan before we are ever born. This is like a blueprint of what our life is supposed to be like, the challenges we should face, the people we will lose, and even when we are supposed to die- down to the day and minute- it's all planned before we are ever born. These lessons help us to achieve the ultimate goal: to live a selfless life full of love and compassion for others.
The other side, regardless of the level a spirit is on, is a beautiful magical place. It's very similar to what we are taught to expect Heaven to look and feel like. When we die, we go to a certain level in "Heaven". Our levels are determined by our life and how we live it (please keep in mind that there are many other details and circumstances being omitted here, I'm just trying to explain this without writing an entire book on a blog).
When you get over there and go to your assigned level, based on your life here in the physical world, you begin going through training and counseling of sorts to learn what you didn't learn while here and to prepare you for your next life. Most spirits are over there for hundreds of years on their current level before returning to this world.
Now let's discuss suicide. When you commit suicide, you end your life earlier than you had previously agreed. This means that all future lessons will be missed and past ones were not mastered. This goes against your "blue print". As a result, there are consequences. You will have to go through some very short counseling on the lower levels of the other side, then you must be re-born very quickly. You will be born as someone else, but must face all of the same struggles and challenges in your new life that you tried to escape from your last time around.
So you see, when I say, suicide is NEVER the answer...it truly isn't, you will just be re-born and have to deal with the same problems and issues all over again until you get it right. There is a little more that occurs during the "in between" period- that is, after you commit suicide but before you come back, but I'm not going to get into that in this blog.
The same holds true for murderers, rapists, etc... They are also held accountable for what they have done in life. They immediately go to a lower level. They have to go through intense training and counseling, a reformation of sorts.
The biggest thing I have learned is that what I thought I knew about redemption of sins, is simply not true. When you die, all your sins are not simply forgiven because you asked for them to be, also, while you are held accountable for what you do in this life, there is no Satan and there is no Hell (at least not the way most of us have been taught).
It may seem like being born and having to do the same life over again as a different person isn't much punishment- but please remember, our souls do not want to be born- we don't want to come to this life any sooner than we have to- so in a way, it is like a punishment.
To sum it up, I haven't even started to explain all of the dynamics involved with death and suicide, Heaven and Hell, or Good & Evil. If you take only one thing away from this blog post, I hope you'll understand that suicide is NEVER the answer and Karma is very real!
It is my understanding that there is not an actual Heaven or Hell on the other side. At least, not the way many of us picture it or have been taught about it. There are instead various levels or plains. I guess one could say that the higher levels represent Heaven and the lower levels represent Hell- but that's not the way it is actually labeled. The entire system is based on only one thing- Karma! That's right... it's not as exciting or complex as you might think. We all get back what we put out in life- good or bad, in this life or the next- We are rewarded for the good and held accountable for the bad.
We all have a plan before we are ever born. This is like a blueprint of what our life is supposed to be like, the challenges we should face, the people we will lose, and even when we are supposed to die- down to the day and minute- it's all planned before we are ever born. These lessons help us to achieve the ultimate goal: to live a selfless life full of love and compassion for others.
The other side, regardless of the level a spirit is on, is a beautiful magical place. It's very similar to what we are taught to expect Heaven to look and feel like. When we die, we go to a certain level in "Heaven". Our levels are determined by our life and how we live it (please keep in mind that there are many other details and circumstances being omitted here, I'm just trying to explain this without writing an entire book on a blog).
When you get over there and go to your assigned level, based on your life here in the physical world, you begin going through training and counseling of sorts to learn what you didn't learn while here and to prepare you for your next life. Most spirits are over there for hundreds of years on their current level before returning to this world.
Now let's discuss suicide. When you commit suicide, you end your life earlier than you had previously agreed. This means that all future lessons will be missed and past ones were not mastered. This goes against your "blue print". As a result, there are consequences. You will have to go through some very short counseling on the lower levels of the other side, then you must be re-born very quickly. You will be born as someone else, but must face all of the same struggles and challenges in your new life that you tried to escape from your last time around.
So you see, when I say, suicide is NEVER the answer...it truly isn't, you will just be re-born and have to deal with the same problems and issues all over again until you get it right. There is a little more that occurs during the "in between" period- that is, after you commit suicide but before you come back, but I'm not going to get into that in this blog.
The same holds true for murderers, rapists, etc... They are also held accountable for what they have done in life. They immediately go to a lower level. They have to go through intense training and counseling, a reformation of sorts.
The biggest thing I have learned is that what I thought I knew about redemption of sins, is simply not true. When you die, all your sins are not simply forgiven because you asked for them to be, also, while you are held accountable for what you do in this life, there is no Satan and there is no Hell (at least not the way most of us have been taught).
It may seem like being born and having to do the same life over again as a different person isn't much punishment- but please remember, our souls do not want to be born- we don't want to come to this life any sooner than we have to- so in a way, it is like a punishment.
To sum it up, I haven't even started to explain all of the dynamics involved with death and suicide, Heaven and Hell, or Good & Evil. If you take only one thing away from this blog post, I hope you'll understand that suicide is NEVER the answer and Karma is very real!
Sunday, February 12, 2012
Whitney Houston-My Psychic Vision/Suicide? Thoughts surrounding her death
I'd like to start out by saying I'm not writing this blog to gain
attention or to in any way take focus off what really matters- her life,
but Whitney Houston gave us all such a wonderful gift with her voice,
and to lose her at such a young age is a tragedy. With that being said,
I have heard from many people asking me what I, as a psychic, think
happened- I may be putting my reputation on the line by giving my
initial impressions- which I had told some people (you know who you are)
within minutes of initially hearing about her death. I believe Whitney
Houston passed a long time before the authorities were called. I also
believe there is in some way a suicidal energy with her passing. I'm
very sorry to express that & I'm sure many will argue with me, but
that's the energy I get...meaning she either intentionally took her own
life or she knew she was leaving this world, and didn't reach out for
help because she didn't care. I feel she was laying on the floor for a
long period of time, and this may have been how she was found. There
were prescription drugs involved. I know some of these things can be
assumed by anyone who has ever read a newspaper or watched tv, but I'm
saying I don't see it being "street drugs". I know the media has
already released the fact that she was found in a hotel, but that's
another fact I had seen clearly. I know many of you are asking yourself
why I am writing this blog...the answer is simple....as of now, the
media hasn't released any info about her death except that she passed
& that it was in a hotel. I "focused in" on this because numerous
people asked me what my thoughts and feelings were- I could be wrong- no
psychic is right 100% of the time, but this is what I see. Rest in
Peace Whitney. You will be missed by family, friends, and fans.
Friday, February 10, 2012
Psychic Session-Who IsThis Guy-Relentless Spirit, Mysterious Death, & Lessons Learned
I wanted to share another memorable session. I was doing a group
session. There were about 10 people present. I went around the room as
I usually do, different family members and friends were coming through
for different guests. It was a "typical" group session (If you can ever
call these experiences typical).
Suddenly, I had the spirit of a man saying he passed young, he appeared to be in his late teens or early 20s. He gave me the feeling that he was very close to someone in the group. I said " I have a man who passed early in life, he says he was very close to someone here...maybe a husband/boyfriend or even a brother or best friend". No one from the group responded. I continued.."He's a good looking guy, someone really close- a cousin or brother maybe? he says he spent holidays with you, did things together as children, he says you have a sister...someone must know this guy?" Still, the group remains quiet...I then ask again.. "Does anyone know who this is?".
I must explain here that often times the spirit is relentless and will not simply leave. They will continue as long as it takes for me to connect them with the right person.
The guests begin saying, no, not me, I have no idea who this is ( I can tell by the looks on their faces they are starting to doubt my abilities)....At this point, I am beginning to get frustrated and so is he...he then gives me a name, loud & clear...., I say to the group "OK, Who is Jennifer"? I say this rather abruptly, the same way he said it to me. Finally, a girl in the corner of the room says..."That's me...I'm Jennifer". I proceed to ask her if she had anyone she was very close to who passed at a young age, she says, yes my cousin. I tease her a little & say "Finally, duh...why didn't you speak up?", she replied that she was thinking it was a husband or boyfriend because that's the first thing I had said about him.
He then goes on to give her information to validate his identity, personal stories about how they got in trouble together as kids and other situations that meant something & validated his identity for her. He then tells me his death was mysterious. He continues to explain that his parents always suspected foul play and they were right. He tells me to tell her, "Go see them, she hasn't seen them in a while"...she confirms that this is true-his parents did suspect foul play & she hadn't seen them in a while. He instructs her (through me) to tell his parents that they were right, that there were at least 2 others involved in his death and that somehow drugs were related. He said his parents needed to hear that. She confirmed that they were having a very difficult time getting past his death because they just didn't know what happened. I then told her every detail he gave me about his death.
While I have many memorable readings, this is one of those that sticks with me. This reading taught me two very important lessons about the other side....1-If a spirit has a message that they feel is important to get out, they will...they do not give up and will continue relentlessly until I get the message to the right person. 2- I have to say what they say, I shouldn't guess or try to figure out the clues myself, this can confuse the clients or lead them down the wrong path. If I had just said what I heard, that this was a male who was very close to someone in the room, Jennifer may have thought of her cousin sooner, but because I interpreted his statement about the close relationship to mean it was possibly a husband and that was the first thing I said, she immediately discounted it and thought this message was meant for someone else. As soon as she heard me say "Possibly a husband", she tuned out, until I said her name, Jennifer. It can sometimes be difficult to just repeat exactly what I hear. It sounds like it would be easy enough to just repeat, and that is my job, but as humans, we automatically try to understand or decipher the clues ourselves. I wasn't trying to lead my clients, but simply trying to help them interpret the meanings of the clues based on my experience. I now try to say EXACTLY what is said to me, word for word, and while I may offer suggestions, such as "this usually means...", I no longer try to figure it all out myself. I know now that it is not my job to figure it all out, I am simply the messenger.
Suddenly, I had the spirit of a man saying he passed young, he appeared to be in his late teens or early 20s. He gave me the feeling that he was very close to someone in the group. I said " I have a man who passed early in life, he says he was very close to someone here...maybe a husband/boyfriend or even a brother or best friend". No one from the group responded. I continued.."He's a good looking guy, someone really close- a cousin or brother maybe? he says he spent holidays with you, did things together as children, he says you have a sister...someone must know this guy?" Still, the group remains quiet...I then ask again.. "Does anyone know who this is?".
I must explain here that often times the spirit is relentless and will not simply leave. They will continue as long as it takes for me to connect them with the right person.
The guests begin saying, no, not me, I have no idea who this is ( I can tell by the looks on their faces they are starting to doubt my abilities)....At this point, I am beginning to get frustrated and so is he...he then gives me a name, loud & clear...., I say to the group "OK, Who is Jennifer"? I say this rather abruptly, the same way he said it to me. Finally, a girl in the corner of the room says..."That's me...I'm Jennifer". I proceed to ask her if she had anyone she was very close to who passed at a young age, she says, yes my cousin. I tease her a little & say "Finally, duh...why didn't you speak up?", she replied that she was thinking it was a husband or boyfriend because that's the first thing I had said about him.
He then goes on to give her information to validate his identity, personal stories about how they got in trouble together as kids and other situations that meant something & validated his identity for her. He then tells me his death was mysterious. He continues to explain that his parents always suspected foul play and they were right. He tells me to tell her, "Go see them, she hasn't seen them in a while"...she confirms that this is true-his parents did suspect foul play & she hadn't seen them in a while. He instructs her (through me) to tell his parents that they were right, that there were at least 2 others involved in his death and that somehow drugs were related. He said his parents needed to hear that. She confirmed that they were having a very difficult time getting past his death because they just didn't know what happened. I then told her every detail he gave me about his death.
While I have many memorable readings, this is one of those that sticks with me. This reading taught me two very important lessons about the other side....1-If a spirit has a message that they feel is important to get out, they will...they do not give up and will continue relentlessly until I get the message to the right person. 2- I have to say what they say, I shouldn't guess or try to figure out the clues myself, this can confuse the clients or lead them down the wrong path. If I had just said what I heard, that this was a male who was very close to someone in the room, Jennifer may have thought of her cousin sooner, but because I interpreted his statement about the close relationship to mean it was possibly a husband and that was the first thing I said, she immediately discounted it and thought this message was meant for someone else. As soon as she heard me say "Possibly a husband", she tuned out, until I said her name, Jennifer. It can sometimes be difficult to just repeat exactly what I hear. It sounds like it would be easy enough to just repeat, and that is my job, but as humans, we automatically try to understand or decipher the clues ourselves. I wasn't trying to lead my clients, but simply trying to help them interpret the meanings of the clues based on my experience. I now try to say EXACTLY what is said to me, word for word, and while I may offer suggestions, such as "this usually means...", I no longer try to figure it all out myself. I know now that it is not my job to figure it all out, I am simply the messenger.
Wednesday, February 1, 2012
Is your child seeing ghosts? Could your child be a medium or psychic? Child Psychic Evaluations!
I have seen an increase lately in the number of phone calls & emails
I get from parents who think their child may be psychic or have psychic
abilities. The experiences range from the paranormal (seeing ghosts or
spirits) to psychic abilities- predicting the future, dreams, or even
premonitions. Often times these parents are understandably confused and
concerned. They don't know what to believe or how to feel. They want
to support their child, but they don't want to ignore the fact that
something else could be wrong. Often times this can be very alarming
for both parent & child. I encourage you to observe your child, ask
questions, and look for natural explanations first. If you can not
find a natural explanation, please feel free to contact me for an
appointment. I can do a psychic evaluation/assessment of your child.
It's a simple painless process that includes a conversation with the
parent, then the child. I then conduct a series of psychic and medium
ability tests. I can discuss my determination with you and then we move
forward based on my recommendations and your wishes. Many children do
have these abilities. It's hard enough to deal with them as an adult,
but even more difficult for a child or teen. Please keep in mind that I
am a professional psychic and can often share experiences and feelings
with a child or teen. I am not a licensed medical professional &
often times, the symptoms of psychic phenomenon mimic the signs &
symptoms of a serious medical or psychological condition that only can
be determined by a licensed professional in that field. Please know that
you are not alone and you are not crazy! Many families have similar
situations and your child or teen may in fact be a psychic or a medium.
For more information on these evaluations, please visit the : "FAQs"
and the "Service & Rates" sections of my website or contact me.
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