Monday, October 1, 2012

Psychic Medium Answers-Life After Death

Psychic Medium Answers-Life After Death

I get a ton of questions about life after death. I have selected a few of the most popular for this week's blog. I hope you learn a little something or find the answers interesting. Please continue emailing your questions & I'll keep answering them.

1- Can you communicate with Pets/Animals that have departed the physical world?

Absolutely....Souls of any being who lived on earth continue their life in Spirit after they leave the physical world.

2- Can you communicate with someone who never spoke English in life?

Yes, I can usually tell they didn't speak English because they "talk" much faster to me, but I hear them in English.

3- Why would someone come through for me in a session that I didn't really like or didn't know as opposed to someone I was very close to & miss dearly?

I honestly can't answer this question in the way I would like because I don't really understand it myself. I know that when someone passes, they leave all their negativity towards other behind. Often times, they come through during a session because they have a need to give a message or make peace with someone in the physical world. Also, if it's someone you barely knew, it could be that they are so excited/eager to reach out to the physical world, they have the strongest energy at the time. It is also my understanding that spirits do other things, so they may be busy at the time of the session. In the end, it doesn't mean your loved ones are not with you in spirit or do not want to communicate. It's important to remember, this isn't a Science, but I believe it really depends on the ability of the spirit and I to connect at any given time.

4- Why do they give you clues, signs, feelings, symbols, and impressions at first, then get more direct and speak in regular communication as the session moves forward?

This doesn't always happen. Sometimes, they give me their name and start direct clear and accurate communication almost immediately. Other times, it gets much clearer as the session develops. It is my belief that when I first connect, the connection may not always be strong enough at first, then we kind of "get into the groove" as the session develops. Also, spirits often wait to give their message until after they know that the person I'm sitting with and I are confident, without a doubt in our mind, of who they are. Their message would mean much less if we weren't completely positive it's our loved one.

5- Are all sessions equally accurate and clear?

No....again, I do not understand why myself, but some sessions are crystal clear giving me specific details the entire time...other ones, I have to continually ask questions and really push for the details. I believe it has something to do with the connection at the time and the energy of the person I'm sitting with.

6- Why does my loved one talk about insignificant or odd things sometimes instead of giving you information like my nickname or a special memory that I would immediately connect with?

Spirits say and talk about what they want to. I have no control over it at all. I wish they would say exactly what they need to say to convince the person I'm sitting with quickly, and sometimes it works just that way, but not always and I have no idea why. I do believe that often times the things they discuss & the validation info they give are things they feel are not too general but also not something I could possibly know.

7- Why do they give you initials and not names?

I often times do get exact names; however, when I do get initials, it's important to explain that sometimes they give me the letter itself, but most often, they are saying a name, but I can only understand pieces of it, like the first letter or the ending.

8- Do all spirits talk about different things?

Yes and No. They all talk about different things, but there are certain universal signs and symbols for me that I see frequently. Also, their messages are sometimes similar. No two sessions are ever identical- most all talk about completely different things. It's important for me to explain here that I'm just the messenger, so while I try to help the person I'm sitting with by explaining what that symbol typically means for me, it doesn't always mean the same thing. While I'm very eager to help by giving suggestions for a lot of what they show me & say, it's really important that the person doing the session knows what the Spirit is saying and understands.

9- Why do they connect & what do they want to say?

In my opinion, spirits who come through have a message to deliver to someone in the physical world....they do that through me. These messages are typically one of love, hope, peace, understanding, and unsettled or unresolved situations. It's not about me proving myself , it's truly about people knowing that their loved ones are still with them in Spirit & hopefully offering peace to not only those in the physical world, but often to the spirits as well.

10- You are a psychic too, does that mean you can look at people and know everything about them?

Not at all. The biggest misconception about Psychics and Mediums is that we should know everything about everyone. It just doesn't work this way. Remember, we are not the ones "pulling the strings" & we only know what we are "shown" and are supposed to know.