Psychic Answers-Suicide, Murder, Heaven or Hell? Good VS Evil?

I received a comment on a previous blog I had written (the most recent blog, last comment),from a lady who seems very lost and confused right now.  She is not alone, I get many similar calls and emails from others asking some of the very same questions and searching for answers.   I often receive questions regarding Suicide, Murder, Heaven & Hell.  These questions usually have to do with if Heaven and Hell really exist & what my beliefs are in relation to what happens to people who have sinned or committed suicide when they die. Do good people go to Heaven and bad people go to Hell? Are we forgiven for our sins, etc...

It is my understanding that there is not an actual Heaven or Hell on the other side.  At least, not the way many of us picture it or have been taught about it.  There are instead various levels or plains.  I guess one could say that the higher levels represent Heaven and the lower levels represent Hell- but that's not the way it is actually labeled.  The entire system is based on only one thing- Karma!  That's right... it's not as exciting or complex as you might think.  We all get back what we put out in life- good or bad, in this life or the next- We are rewarded for the good and held accountable for the bad. 

We all have a plan before we are ever born.  This is like a blueprint of what our life is supposed to be like, the challenges we should face, the people we will lose, and even when we are supposed to die- down to the day and minute- it's all planned before we are ever born. These lessons help us to achieve the ultimate goal: to live a selfless life full of  love and compassion for others. 

The other side, regardless of the level a spirit is on, is a beautiful magical place.  It's very similar to what we are taught to expect Heaven to look and feel like.  When we die, we go to a certain level in "Heaven".  Our levels are determined by our life and how we live it (please keep in mind that there are many other details and circumstances being omitted here,  I'm just trying to explain this without writing an entire book on a blog). 

When you get over there and go to your assigned level, based on your life here in the physical world, you begin going through training and counseling of sorts to learn what you didn't learn while here and to prepare you for your next life.  Most spirits are over there for hundreds of years on their current level before returning to this world.

Now let's discuss suicide.  When you commit suicide, you end your life earlier than you had previously agreed.   This means that all future lessons will be missed and past ones were not mastered. This goes against your "blue print".  As a result,  there are consequences. You will have to go through some very short counseling on the lower levels of the other side, then you must be re-born very quickly.  You will be born as someone else, but must face all of the same struggles and challenges in your new life that you tried to escape from your last time around.

So you see, when I say, suicide is NEVER the answer...it truly isn't, you will just be re-born and have to deal with the same problems and issues all over again until you get it right.  There is a little more that occurs during the "in between" period- that is, after you commit suicide but before you come back, but I'm not going to get into that in this blog. 

The same holds true for murderers, rapists, etc...  They are also held accountable for what they have done in life.  They immediately go to a lower level.  They have to go through intense training and counseling, a reformation of sorts.

The biggest thing I have learned is that what I thought I knew about redemption of sins, is simply not true.  When you die, all your sins are not simply forgiven because you asked for them to be, also, while you are held accountable for what you do in this life, there is no Satan and there is no Hell (at least not the way most of us have been taught).

It may seem like being born and having to do the same life over again as a different person isn't much punishment- but please remember, our souls do not want to be born- we don't want to come to this life any sooner than we have to- so in a way, it is like a punishment.

To sum it up, I haven't even started to explain all of the dynamics involved with death and suicide, Heaven and Hell, or Good & Evil.  If you take only one thing away from this blog post, I hope you'll understand that suicide is NEVER the answer and Karma is very real!

Whitney Houston-My Psychic Vision/Suicide? Thoughts surrounding her death

I'd like to start out by saying I'm not writing this blog to gain attention or to in any way take focus off what really matters- her life, but Whitney Houston gave us all such a wonderful gift with her voice, and to lose her at such a young age is a tragedy.  With that being said, I have heard from many people asking me what I, as a psychic, think happened- I may be putting my reputation on the line by giving my initial impressions- which I had told some people (you know who you are) within minutes of initially hearing about her death.  I believe Whitney Houston passed a long time before the authorities were called.  I also believe there is in some way a suicidal energy with her passing.  I'm very sorry to express that & I'm sure many will argue with me, but that's the energy I get...meaning she either intentionally took her own life or she knew she was leaving this world, and didn't reach out for help because she didn't care.  I feel she was laying on the floor for a long period of time, and this may have been how she was found.  There were prescription drugs involved.  I know some of these things can be assumed by anyone who has ever read a newspaper or watched tv, but I'm saying I don't see it being "street drugs".  I know the media has already released the fact that she was found in a hotel, but that's another fact I had seen clearly.  I know many of you are asking yourself why I am writing this blog...the answer is simple....as of now, the media hasn't released any info about her death except that she passed & that it was in a hotel.  I "focused in" on this because numerous people asked me what my thoughts and feelings were- I could be wrong- no psychic is right 100% of the time, but this is what I see.  Rest in Peace Whitney.  You will be missed by family, friends, and fans.

Psychic Session-Who IsThis Guy-Relentless Spirit, Mysterious Death, & Lessons Learned

I wanted to share another memorable session.  I was doing a group session.  There were about 10 people present.  I went around the room as I usually do, different family members and friends were coming through for different guests. It was a "typical" group session (If you can ever call these experiences typical). 
    Suddenly, I had the spirit of a man saying he passed young, he appeared to be in his late teens or early 20s.  He gave me the feeling that he was very close to someone in the group.  I said  " I have a man who passed early in life, he says he was very close to someone here...maybe a husband/boyfriend or even a brother or best friend".  No one from the group responded.  I continued.."He's a good looking guy, someone really close- a cousin or brother maybe? he says he spent holidays with you, did things together as children, he says you have a sister...someone must know this guy?" Still, the group remains quiet...I then ask again.. "Does anyone know who this is?".  
    I must explain here that often times the spirit is relentless and will not simply leave.  They will continue as long as it takes for me to connect them with the right person. 
    The guests begin saying, no, not me, I have no idea who this is ( I can tell by the looks on their faces they are starting to doubt my abilities)....At this point, I am beginning to get frustrated and so is he...he then gives me a name, loud & clear...., I say to the group "OK, Who is Jennifer"? I say this rather abruptly, the same way he said it to me.  Finally, a girl in the corner of the room says..."That's me...I'm Jennifer".  I proceed to ask her if she had anyone she was very close to who passed at a young age, she says, yes my cousin.  I tease her a little & say "Finally, duh...why didn't you speak up?", she replied that she was thinking it was a husband or boyfriend because that's the first thing I had said about him. 
    He then goes on to give her information to validate his identity, personal stories about how they got in trouble together as kids and other situations that meant something & validated his identity for her.  He then tells me his death was mysterious.  He continues to explain that his parents always suspected foul play and they were right.  He tells me to tell her, "Go see them, she hasn't seen them in a while"...she confirms that this is true-his parents did suspect foul play & she hadn't seen them in a while.  He instructs her (through me) to tell his parents that they were right, that there were at least 2 others involved in his death and that somehow drugs were related.  He said his parents needed to hear that.  She confirmed that they were having a very difficult time getting past his death because they just didn't know what happened.  I then told her every detail he gave me about his death. 
    While I have many memorable readings, this is one of those that sticks with me.  This reading taught me two very important lessons about the other side....1-If a spirit has a message that they feel is important to get out, they will...they do not give up and will continue relentlessly until I get the message to the right person. 2- I have to say what they say, I shouldn't guess or try to figure out the clues myself, this can confuse the clients or lead them down the wrong path.  If I had just said what I heard, that this was a male who was very close to someone in the room, Jennifer may have thought of her cousin sooner, but because I interpreted his statement about the close relationship to mean it was possibly a husband and that was the first thing I said, she immediately discounted it and thought this message was meant for someone else. As soon as she heard me say "Possibly a husband", she tuned out, until I said her name, Jennifer.  It can sometimes be difficult to just repeat exactly what I hear.  It sounds like it would be easy enough to just repeat, and that is my job, but as humans, we automatically try to understand or decipher the clues ourselves.  I wasn't trying to lead my clients, but simply trying to help them interpret the meanings of the clues based on my experience.  I now try to say EXACTLY what is said to me, word for word, and  while I may offer suggestions, such as "this usually means...", I no longer try to figure it all out myself.  I know now that it is not my job to figure it all out, I am simply the messenger.

Is your child seeing ghosts? Could your child be a medium or psychic? Child Psychic Evaluations!

I have seen an increase lately in the number of phone calls & emails I get from parents who think their child may be psychic or have psychic abilities.  The experiences range from the paranormal (seeing ghosts or spirits) to psychic abilities- predicting the future, dreams, or even premonitions.  Often times these parents are understandably confused and concerned.  They don't know what to believe or how to feel.  They want to support their child, but they don't want to ignore the fact that something else could be wrong.  Often times this can be very alarming for both parent & child.  I encourage you to observe your child, ask questions, and look for natural explanations first.  If you can not find a natural explanation, please feel free to contact me for an appointment.  I can do a psychic evaluation/assessment of your child.  It's a simple painless process that includes a conversation with the parent, then the child. I then conduct a series of psychic and medium ability tests.  I can discuss my determination with you and then we move forward based on my recommendations and your wishes.  Many children do have these abilities.  It's hard enough to deal with them as an adult, but even more difficult for a child or teen.  Please keep in mind that I am a professional psychic and can often share experiences and feelings with a child or teen. I am not a licensed medical professional & often times, the symptoms of psychic phenomenon mimic the signs & symptoms of a serious medical or psychological condition that only can be determined by a licensed professional in that field. Please know that you are not alone and you are not crazy!  Many families have similar situations and your child or teen may in fact be a psychic or a medium.  For more information on these evaluations, please visit the : "FAQs" and the "Service & Rates" sections of my website or contact me.